love pretend

Pretend Love
Note Kang Shamudra

Have you ever fallen in love with someone? Sure you want to him, seduce him, praised him as high as the Himalayas and continues to pursue until the burrow scorpion though. If love was sticky brown sugar taste of Java, so the old song snippets Jamal Mirdad rebound.
If people who have seized dicinta, penginnya deket continue, romantic continue. Separated for a while, my heart pounding like a lightning strike. But those who dicinta not necessarily the same thing ngrasain. Perhaps our love was just a missed aja. Finished, unrequited love. There's no sense at all, let alone sound.
For those who do not care can get stuck in the circle of love play. The mock doi love in return because there will. There are other targets who want accomplished, for example, want nunut urip, nunut snack, mbonceng nunut vehicles. Just wanted ngedapetin a sweet tooth, which can nyenengin liver.
If you have a sweet tooth already drained abis, pretending to love it drifted into the sky and disappeared seven anywhere. Like eating sugar cane, sweet junk thrown out. Stay suffering a painful inner matchless.
Falling in love could be a disease if it eventually wring the soul because of misguided love. Love that stray dangerous consequences. Something that looks sweet and beautiful is not necessarily beneficial and bring beauty. One-one even bring doom and ugliness.
Good renowned psychologist Nancy in one of his books describing the bland state of love, where many couples experience moods that are not the same whether they live in close proximity. One was happy, but others suffer. Or that one is in the gentle moods, but others feel depressed and not peaceful.
Unfortunately, these discrepancies sometimes followed by one-sided love. For example someone who was so concerned with other people, but the DOI did not care. Doi feel proud and feel loved in excess, then acted arbitrarily. This is described as a form of Nancy Good bets bland love.
Someone could say "I love you ... just you ... you're the one I cared for my soul mate ..." as well as romantic confessions others. But in fact no one can ever tell the truth. Her love was limited to lip decoration.
Romance takes the form of internal capital attention and admiration of a loved one. True love is a concern that always radiated joy either for themselves or others. Not true love leads to suffering. This means that to achieve true love and the process required proof concrete.
A 19th-century author, T. Gautier said that love is to admire with the heart. Admiring means loving with your mind. This admiration is often present in the early days of fall in love, but can fade in the next development. Since the emergence of admiration more influenced by factors such as how to dress lahiriyah, playing music, exercising, and so on. In another sense, the process is to acknowledge the advantages admire the other party has in certain areas.
Another form of the spice of love is a compliment, which almost everyone expected it. Praise usually given to a person's ability in a particular field. Similar to the admiration, though not essentially the same. According to Nancy, the implications of praise are: praise the people who usually want to be like someone who is praised and felt less able to like it. But in admiration, admire people who might be as good as people admired.
Praise sincerely given generally to raise hearts. Instead, praise is given on the basis of compulsion or because of certain intentions will not produce anything worth alias.
Not infrequently there is the DOI can only ngebual. The words of love just bullshit, not proven at all. The sentence "love" only to be decorative lip and did not soak into the heart. That is why the feeling of love at first overwhelming can suddenly turn into hate.
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Love and affection is all about feelings. Love of a girl or a guy on the other hand, often blindly. Someone who fell in love in him always obsessed by the arrival of a happiness, to forget the reality around him.
If someone feels loved his girlfriend, comes the desire to have a fully. As examples of Dino, who was very loved Neni. Deep his love until he thought "crazy": if you fail ngedapetin Neni, better commit suicide or do not want to love anyone else "". When Dino really failed ngedapetin Neni, he stressed, and felt himself unworthy. Losing a lover feel like a lost world and everything in it. Life was empty. That story is often reflected in the poems of love.
Love can fade any time. Only people who have a mature personality are able to maintain the fabric of love. Although the storm hit, but he still insisted in principle to not betray her lover. That is, love really coached based on loyalty and a sense of deep responsibility. Able to accept what it is from her lover, both strengths and weaknesses.
Personality of an immature person would be hard to be so. Most people only want to receive the excess of others. Such love is true love pretending to be a false alias.
Gasset states Filusuf OY, fake love is reflected only on the basis of reflection, the compensation needs of physical (biological) and love on the basis of occupation and psychological deprivation. Even more ridiculous, doi giving love to others because of the corresponding (coincidence) is similar to her ex-boyfriend. Na, we are including the section where?