Minggu, 04 Januari 2009

my friend

Friend. What is the meaning of a friendship?? Some say it is a friend of a friend who really close to know the little things about us. There is also a friend told me that if anywhere is always together. But one of my friends said it was a friend of a friend in joy and sorrow, but know the limits where a time when friends can be a problem, we should let him deal with his problem so that a friend grew more mature and independent.

Sometimes I casually mentioned, he's my friend. But when asked was it about my friend related to family, education and others, I was confused he said. From there I thinkers, what is my good friend? Did I deserve the name of a friend? Because I think a friend is someone who can see us from heart to heart, not because of looks, materials, background, education and others. Therefore I was rarely asked anything that smells of privacy to my friends. I am more a giver and receiver input laments my friends. Not that I'm someone who does not care and do not want to know, but I think friendship is not judged by how deeply we know these people stuff, but how deeply we understand the person. I've ngerasain bitter friendship when I told him my friend, it turns out he's just using what I have and others. When I was falling, he actually left because he felt there could ga given by me.

Only much for the meaning of friendship??

One day I meyatakan A is my friend. When A asked, who friends you, A answers B, C, D, but did not mention my name. From here I try to rethink this. Did I not include her best friend? What I am not a good friend? This is often terbesit in my mind my friend a lot. I went with my friends differently. But if they are my best friend? Because sometimes a friend is different to hang out with friends.

There was a friend I send sms statement, "I do not expect to be the most important person in your life, that demand is too great. I just hope one day to hear the name of my reply, you'll smile and say, he's my friend. "Damn! It really penetrated into my heart. Those were the words that I want. I do not need any statement. But when someone mentions my name, he would say "Chika is my friend". I do not need to mention to anyone wrote my friend, because you know who you are. To me, friends are people who regard me as a friend. We do not need nyebutin my best friend is A, B, C, D, E. Because only 1 name forgotten, that person would be sad. Vice versa. Kalo your friend to name his friend but forgot to mention your name, you must be sad. Therefore I can only say the people who are my best friends are people who regard me as a friend.

Here is a quote a statement from a friend:

A friend still providing personal space, privacy as a human being. And we'll taste deket with him despite ga ga met and the contacts in a long time. Because friendship is basically the heart of the bond. Ga would ilang memisahakan despite our distance dimension. We must mengkui ga somehow we can eliminate him from our hearts. And without friends, we ga be like this now.

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